May 2004
 
FAQ's - Frequently Asked Questions

Child Support Law Questions:
Domestic Violence Questions:
 

 

Child Support Law Questions:


Q: WHY DO I HAVE TO PAY BY WAGE ASSIGNMENT?

A: The Court has the power to issue a Wage Assignment if requested at the hearing whenever a child or spousal support order is made. There is no requirement that arrears exist. Some Counties require a Wage Assignment Form be submitted before a Dissolution Judgment is processed. The Courts use wage assignment as a safeguard to protect the receiving spouse from the paying spouses default.

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Q: CAN MY DRIVER'S LICENSE BE SUSPENDED FOR FAILURE TO PAY SUPPORT?

A: Failure to pay Court Ordered Child Support (even by a month) can result in your license being suspended. The State gives the District Attorney the right to contact the DMV and ask for the suspension when payments become delinquent.

How it works: The DMV notifies you at the address listed on your license. The notice contains a 30-day warning and includes a form to be filled out and sent back to the DMV. Once the DMV receives back your paper work, it will issue a 90-day provisional license at which time you need to contact the DA's Office and get your arrears straightened out. This process does not always work as stated depending on the Counties backlog. This could be to one's advantage or disadvantage. Always remember, that if you are contacted by the DA's office you must clear the matter up with them. If payments are to be sent to them be sure to do so. Payments sent directly to the custodial parent will not clear up the matter. Moving out of state also will not help, because the DMV may place a hold on your license and the new state will honor that hold.

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Q: CAN THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY INCREASE MY CHILD SUPPORT?

A: Any time there is a change of income of either parent; there is a chance that support may either go up or down. The court will usually only consider where there has been at least a 20% increase or decrease in income. Child support may be reviewed or modified at anytime the court finds a change in circumstances.

If you can't afford an attorney, you may want to take a trip down to the Facilitator's office at your county courthouse and have them help you fill out an Income and Expense Declaration and run a Disso master in order to find out what guideline child support should be.

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Q: HOW DOES ARREARS WORK?

A: The rules for arrears may differ depending on your status. One set of rules applies for welfare and one for non-welfare. The Court also looks at how long the child was hidden and the efforts made by the non-custodial parent to locate the child. However, until this is corrected and an amount is set, you should continue to make payments to the District Attorney's office for the amount under the original order.

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Q: MY EX DOES NOT LET ME SEE MY CHILD. DO I STILL HAVE TO PAY?

A: Yes, the two are not related. Once you've been ordered to pay support you cannot discontinue just because the custodial party is withholding your child from you. There are other legal avenues to take when visitation becomes an issue. It is important to keep your child support current.

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Q: I'VE ALWAYS PAID MY CHILD SUPPORT IN CASH TO THE CUSTODIAL PARENT, AND NOW THE DA SAYS I OWE THEM MONEY. WHAT CAN I DO?

A: If you're going to pay cash, make sure you always get a receipt. Best advice is DO NOT PAY CASH. Research shows that at least 25-30% of all AFDC cases involve some sort of fraud. Just to note, the burden of proof is on the paying parent to show that money was in fact paid. Without a receipt this is a hard burden to beat when cash payments are involved.

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Q: HOW SHOULD I PAY MY SUPPORT?

A: Always pay via money order, check or if cash, with a signed receipt by the custodial parent. When making payments to the DA, they too require money orders or certified funds.

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Q: I PAID IN CASH, BUT I HAVE NO RECEIPTS. WHAT DO I DO?


A: If you paid in cash, then you must produce records, bank statements, verifying direct deposits to the other parent's account or any other record that proves you made the payments. Oral testimony from a witness who can verify those payments may also work in your favor. Basically, the court needs to see some sort of proof that the payments were actually made, or you will probably lose.

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Q: DO STOCK OPTIONS IMPACT ALIMONY, SEPARATE MAINTAINANCE AND CHILD SUPPORT?

A: Stock options do impact payments ordered by the court. Today stock options are granted to employees more regularly then they had been in the past. Employers use stock options as part of their employee's compensation package. Employer-granted qualified stock options are typically issued at the price of the company's shares in the market on the date granted. If the market price increases, then the options have real value. Once the option vests (typically not for 3-5 years or even longer), the option holder can purchase the shares and sell them (most companies place restrictions on this). Some options may never vest and some options don't hold their value, making them virtually worthless.
With the way the market is today, the value of stock options can change dramatically overnight.

If the court values the options as property, and the couple lives in a "community property" state then the court will divide that property which is earned during the marriage as 50/50. Thus, each partner will get his or her share of the property interest.

If the court values the options as income, the spouse holding the options may be ordered to pay support based on the income that derives from the options. The Court takes the position that the stock holding spouse may choose to liquidate or cash out those options that were earned or granted during the marriage. Therefore, the community has an interest in the income derived. The Court in the past has experienced people trying to shelter their income in the options to keep it from the non-holding spouse.

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Q: CAN I CLAIM A TAX DEDUCTION FOR MY SUPPORT PAYMENTS?

A: Child Support payments are not tax deductible to the payer spouse and are not taxable income to the supported spouse. Spousal support may be deductible by the payer spouse if the following requirements are met. Payments must be made in cash, checks or money orders, transfers of service or property do not count. The payments must be made under a divorce or separation instrument/order or a written separation agreement. The spouses may not file joint income tax returns and other tax agreements must not have been made in prior written agreements or court orders.

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Domestic Violence Questions:


Q: WHEN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS INVOLVED, WHAT SHOULD BE DONE?

A: The victim should retreat to a safe place. Immediate police assistance should be requested when needed. Local law enforcement personnel, city and district attorneys may be very helpful not only in prosecuting the crime, but also in providing referrals to other local assistance ( ie. shelters, safe houses, counseling, and legal assistance). A victim should never try to do it alone. Outside help and support from others is essential. The typical abuser has a very dominant and aggressive personality that is both manipulative and controlling. Whatever your background, a victim of Domestic Violence should not back away from getting help. Domestic violence does not discriminate and affects every social class. If you or someone you know has been abused or is a victim of domestic violence it is essential that help be sought.

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Q: ONCE A RESTRAINING ORDER HAS BEEN FILED, WHAT IS THE PENALTY FOR VIOLATING IT?

A: Violation of a restraining order is contempt of a court order. Violation of a valid restraining order may result in the violator being taken into immediate custody or jail. The offender may be charged with a misdemeanor or a felony and may be sentenced or fined.


Q: WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A TEMPORARY RESTRAINING ORDER AND A RESTRAINING ORDER AFTER HEARING?

A: A "Temporary Restraining Order" (TRO) is normally issued after an "ex parte appearance." An ex parte appearance is an appearance in court by one party without the other party being present. The Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) is an order from the court directing the named person to refrain form particular acts and to stay away from particular places. The order is only effective if it is served upon the person to be restrained. Once the person has been served an "Order to Show Cause" hearing is scheduled where both parties will have an opportunity to be heard and the court will be given additional information to determine if a more permanent order is needed or the original order shall be vacated. A TRO usually can be issued the same day it is requested and it remains in effect until the Order to Show Cause hearing. The hearing is typically scheduled to occur within 15-20 days after the date issued.

Once the hearing takes place, the court may determine that a more permanent order be established. That is referred to as a Restraining Order After Hearing. The order in effect may be for a specified time, even for years. The Restraining Order After Hearing may also be renewed for additional periods of time upon request by the protected person and upon approval by the court making it for a permanent duration.

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Q: ARE THERE OTHER REMEDIES AVAILABLE TO PREVENT FURTHER DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

A: In order to try and prevent further incidents of domestic violence the court may issue a Restraining Order or a Protective Order. The Court may include certain restrictions within the order under the premise of providing protection to the victim. Orders issued in a Domestic Violence case may include: Kick out orders (where one party is ordered by the court to leave the house), stay away orders (where restrained party may not contact, come in contact with, attack, threaten ect), 100 yard stay away (person can not come within 100 yards of protected person), order to enroll in counseling ( anger management, batterer treatment counseling etc), prohibition from purchasing or possessing firearms. The Court's ultimate goal is to protect and reduce the potential for harm on others.

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